"Good." She's still of the opinion that Lan Wangji is the one unworthy of Wei Wuxian but she understands, somewhat. Wei Wuxian's never been one for halves. Either he was making the decisions or letting people decide things and going along, as much as he possibly could.

"And what do you mean, you don't...." She narrows her eyes at him over her tea before setting the cup back down. "You never thought about courting rituals? Or what it might look like? Jiang Wanyin at least knew to buy me a comb for a courting gift." And really, she'd thought that piece of advice came from Wei Wuxian.